Does my husband still have to pay child support to his daughter after she turns 18?

My husband’s daughter is almost 18. She lives with her mother and she hasn’t even bothered to visit her father in the last 9 years. Her mother is a manipulative, indolent, and jealous woman. So, the girl is planning on going to Columbia University next year but she supposedly doesn’t qualify for financial aid. Does my husband have to pay for her studies? Does he have to keep paying child support? The mom is unemployed.

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What if my husband wants to have a threes0me with an African American woman?

My husband and I are both white. Do you think that’s racist? I’d rather have a threesome with a black man, but my husband said that’s gay.

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How should a Muslim husband deal with his wife's inlaws from a previous marriage?

I am a new Muslim convert who was widowed and we have a son. My new husband is having a hard time accepting my deceased husband’s parents. They are in my life due to my son, they are my son’s grandparents. They live in a different state and only see my son about twice a year. My current husband is worried that if we have children, God willing, he doesn’t know how to explain it to our kids (why my son has different grandparents, etc.) and he’s having trouble with it. Any suggestions?

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What do my husband and I need to do now to prepare to buy a house?

My husband and I want to prepare to apply for a home loan within the next 5 years. Currently we rent, my husband lived there 3 years before we got married and we have lived there married for 2 years. We’ve never been late on rent or bills. We don’t like debt and thus don’t carry any. Any large ticket items (i.e. laptop computer ,500 and mattress ,500) we pay in cash. I only have three department store credit cards (Banana Republic, Ann Taylor & VS) as far as credit goes. I pay any balance (I don’t use them much) when due or before due date. The only financing my husband and I have done is paid off a 2002 truck in 2005 (after selling). What should we do in order to build up credit (or whatever is needed) in order to get a home loan in about 5 years or less?

Thanks in advance. We are planning on meeting with a realtor or loan officer to discuss in detail what they require.
***Additional note***
We currently are investing and understand that renting is dead money, but in our circumstance (I graduate the end of this semester and my husband will be applying for a new job *somewhere*) we don’t have a better choice. We don’t want to get locked into a home since real estate in our area is not a hot ticket item. Also, we’re not members of a credit union.
Also, we are very computer savvy and never put personal information on the Internet. My husband is a CCNA and studying network security. He understands how easy it is to get info like that.

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What should my boyfriend say while apologizing to my parents?

I snuck my boyfriend over to my house while my parents were sleeping. My neighbor totally told on me. Of course, my parents hate my boyfriend now. I suggested that he talked to my parents about what had happened and apologize for it, but we are both cluless on what he should say. I could really use some mature adivce. I really like my boyfriend, and i dont want my parents hating him. I need help!

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What is the best free online dating site?

I am trying to find a free online dating site. Most of them offer free trials. I would appreciate your suggestions. Thanks.

PS: I need a 100% free dating site not dating sites offering trials.

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Where do my husband and I start when it comes to retirement?

My husband is 23 and I am 22. We have been married for a year and are 4 months pregnant with our first.
I will be a stay at home mom and my husband will be the bread winner till the Kids are in school full time and I get a job.

When it comes to saving up for retirement, where do you start? How much will my husband and I need to retire. We are both really clueless about retirement.

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My boyfriend is attracted to people completely different to me?

My boyfriend and I are part of a group of really good friends and one night, before we were together, when we were all together, the guys started talking about celebrity women they find attractive and my now-boyfriend said Penelope Cruz. Now that we’re together (we have been for three months and it’s all going really well) I’ve been thinking about it. I’m blonde, fair skinned completely different, is it weird? Doesn’t bother me at all because I know my boyfriend adores me etc, just wondering what people thought?

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How does online dating affect people with a history of arranged marriages?

How does this work among Muslims, in India, or among Orthodox Jews, or in the US among people with no tradition of arranged marriages? Also, how is online dating similar to or different from traditional matchmaking techniques?

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My husband and I want to open a business, where do we start?

Okay please, no rude answers, my husband and I have good jobs right now, we love working together, so we’ve been thinking about opening a store with car products such as tires, rims, those kind of products. My husband loves cars, so he knows a lot about them. However, where do we start? At the moment, we are just working full time. Are there any online classes that you people recommend we take, to know more about business, so we can get a license? My father has his own business, and I work for him, so I know a lot already, so yeah please help!

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